This, That, and Goal Updates

Whoa! Can you believe it's already May? It feels like yesterday was March but now it's May and I have to check in on my goals... ugh :-(
I guess that's a pretty good indication on how I did... not so great. The only goal I set for myself in April was to eat clean which is really hard when I had Emmett's birthday, family in town, and our anniversary plus it felt like there was an event every weekend. I'm usually pretty good on the weekdays about fixing clean, healthy breakfasts, lunches, and dinners. But 2 o'clock hits and I want a snack not to mention that after supper Emmett wants us to have dessert together and I can't disappoint him. I allow myself a cheat meal but lately it's turned into a cheat weekend. Oh well, I'm not going to harp on it any longer. What's done is done and all I can do now is try and do better.

May Goals

Goal 1: Workout at least 3 times a week for 35 to 45 minutes. We're already a week into the month and I've worked out twice, so I better get on the ball.

Goal 2: Date nights with Pierce. Our anniversary was last month but things haven't been working out for us to spend any time with each without the kids so I'm shooting for two dates. Fingers crossed. Being parents is hard especially when you're always getting talked over by children. I feel like communication and one on one time is crucial in maintaining a healthy, happy relationship.

I'm going to keep May short, sweet, and attainable. We're going on vacation to Tybee this Wednesday so I've two days to tone up... hahahaha! I kid... I'm going to make the best of what I'm working with and enjoy myself. Maybe I'll be inspired to go for a run on the beach... probably chasing after a child.

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This weekend was fun so I wanted to share a few pictures.

Saturday started with the obligatory t-ball game. I won't bore you with pictures. You've seen one t-ball game, you've seen them all. 

That evening we went to a Kentucky Derby party. I love dressing up, so this was right up my alley. 

I've always wanted a reason to wear a fascinator and I finally got to do so! 

dress is Taylor (last season) // fascinator (similar) 

Pierce has been hounding me to take Oliver for his first haircut. I love his long locks but even I must admit they were getting a little long. He was recently called "she" and with his hair wet it came down to his upper back. Rather than have him cry and fight a stranger I took up the scissors and got to it on Sunday morning. Please excuse my attire. I made up my mind and did it with little regard for my appearance and I also forgot to take a before shot of Ollie. 

He sat really well for me. He would have had a fit if a stranger were trying to touch him.

The after... including his little pony tail.

Not a baby anymore 😢 Makes me a little sad.

Later that day we did a little shopping and then headed to Riverfront Park for a picnic. We're always searching for new local places to take the boys, and this one did not disappoint. The park is scenically located along the Cooper River on the old Naval Base. It has lots of cool sculptures, a spray feature, a Naval memorial, an performance pavilion, and, of course, a playground. I bet they host some awesome performances. I'm going to keep an eye out for events at the park. We'll definitely be back!

That was about it. Hope ya'll had a great weekend as well!

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My Weekend- Anniversary Edition

It's Sunday night again and I'm spent! Today marks mine and Pierce's 12th wedding anniversary and we really wanted to have a date night to celebrate but our usual babysitters were booked Friday and Saturday, and it seems like fate didn't have it in the cards for us so we made the best out of the weekend with lots of family time. 

Saturday our neighborhood had a huge neighborhood yard sale so we hooked the wagon (I have the older version of THIS one) us to my bike and road all over the neighborhood early that morning. Let me tell you, pulling Emmett and Oliver around for over an hour was a great workout. Thank goodness it was early and there was a breeze or I may have monkeyed.

Of course, since it's spring and a Saturday, Emmett had his baseball game. He's really improving with each game and it's fun to watch. Way to go, Em!

Oliver and I hung out while Emmett and Pierce napped. He posed so cute I had to take a picture. He's getting so big and so darn cute!!!

Saturday afternoon, Emmett and I hopped back on the bike and headed up to the pool for the first time this spring. The weather was perfect. Emmett swam and swam while I sat on the side and chatted with friends. The water is still a little too cool for me and thankfully he didn't hound me to bad to get it. I love that he's a little more independent but I didn't take my eyes off of him because his swimming skills are a work in progress. 

Today, Sunday, is our anniversary. We checked out the local events and settled on going to the Beaufort Air Show and I must say, we chose correctly. There were lots of planes and helicopters to explore in addition to the fabulous air show. Emmett had a blast taking everything in and I think Pierce really enjoyed himself as well. 

 We were all having fun but I could tell Oliver just wasn't himself. He's usually very talkative and loves to eat but all he wanted to do was ride in his stroller and rest. When we left we stopped to grab a late lunch where he proceeded to get diarrhea and threw up on Pierce. We made it home in one piece. I cleaned him up and rocked him until he started to feel better. By five he was wanting eat, talk, and play; thank the Lord. He's usually very active so it's really obvious when he's not feeling well.

He looks miserable here but I fixed his ear protection and he was a little happier. Mainly he just chilled and slept. Sweet, pitiful baby. 

We didn't do much this evening after the long day and pitiful sick baby. Although our anniversary wasn't celebrated how either Pierce or I would have planned it, we know that life with kids is a rollercoaster with it's ups and downs with today being a perfect example. So Pierce, thank you for being my partner in this crazy, rollercoaster of life we have built together. I couldn't imagine living it with anyone else. You are my love, best friend, confidante, and partner in life. Thank you for all you do for me and our family. Love you!

This and That

It's Monday again. I hope you all survived the weekend. By the time Sunday evening rolls around I feel like I'm just trying to survive with my sanity.  It was a pretty early bedtime for all of us and now I'm feeling refreshed and ready to start a new week.

 Our weekend was pretty laid back. Emmett has been bugging me to take him to play tennis, so on Saturday we gave it a go. Wouldn't you know that as soon as we arrived he ran onto the court, fell down, and scraped down knees. I thought it was going to be over before we had even begun but Emmett pulled it together and we played. Emmett worked on serving and volleying back and forth with Pierce and I, while Oliver napped. I'm not a a good tennis player but it was fun volleying the ball back and forth with him. The playing came to an abrupt end when Pierce hit the ball into the light which ricocheted onto a sleeping Oliver. Let me just say, he did not enjoy being woken up like that. He proceeded to wail while we packed up and the entire way home. I finally got him to stop by giving him a popsicle. I've never given him one before and it made him feel better instantly. Behold, the power of the popsicle.

Look at the cute face. He's getting so big. I don't want to forget all the sweet things he does, like picking and smelling the flowers while we watch Emmett's t-ball practice.

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Do you Cartwheel?

Do you love Target? That's a stupid question... everyone loves Target. They have cute products, good quality, adorable decor, and reasonable prices. What's not to love? I can easily spend over an hour roaming the aisles checking out all the new products.
So have you heard of or used Cartwheel? It's an app that you use in store to get additional savings and it is awesome. The deals change all the time, so you need to check back often. Some deals last several weeks while others are only good for a day. You can sort by category or you can check the items in your buggy by scanning them through the app. If there is a Cartwheel deal it will pop up so you can save it. When you go to checkout, just pull up the app and click "checkout." The barcode will come up which can be scanned at the register.
Now through Saturday you can save an additional 30% off women's shirts, shorts, outerwear, and dresses when you use the app in store. That makes for some pretty awesome deals. This week is the perfect time stock up on some spring essentials like tanks and tees. They have loads of colors to choose from the quality is great.
I wanted to share a few items that will be going home with me once I get the opportunity to make it to the store this week.

Plaid Shirt Dress

Printed Crepe Tunic Dress

Lace Scallop Hem Blouse

Dark Wash High-rise Shorts

Floral Print Ruffle Romper with Overlay Dress

I also have a Target Redcard so I save an additional 5% every time I shop plus free shipping on all online orders. Love it!!!

Weekend Activities and Serenity Now

Warning... A quick vent before I get into to the weekend wrap-up. 

Is it strange that after some weekends I look forward to Monday's and going back to work? It's not that my work is the greatest thing but weekends can be so exhausting. Emmett and Oliver must save up all their energy for Pierce and I because they run us ragged both physically and mentally. I know when I go to work I will have quiet time where I won't be assaulted with barrage of questions and demands.

Serenity Now!

Thank goodness Pierce and I usually get a few hours of one on one time before we pick up the boys on Fridays because otherwise I don't know when we'd ever find that time. After we put the boys to bed we are both spent and I just want to zone out and chill or pass out. Does anyone else feel this way? How do decompress and how do you find the time to do so? Do you have any recommendations on how we could find this time during the day when the boys are around? Neither of them take naps and it's more frustrating trying to get them to take one than just letting them stay up. 

I don't want to be a grump to the kids or my husband but there come a point on the weekends when the demands, back talk, sass, and questions become too much. Help a mother out? 

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Now onto the fun stuff that wears me out... don't get me wrong I love the activities even though I know there will be attitude and entitlement will follow. 

Pierce and I finally took the time to bike the West Ashley Greenway. It was a beautiful day and a great way to get in some cardio. I'm sure Pierce regretted letting me lead because I book it. I did slow down a little so he could catch up and I could enjoy the scenery. 

I just had to share a for photos of my little man at t-ball practice because he's so stink'n cute. He's getting so big and his skills this year have improved greatly since last year. I have a feeling it's going to be a good season. 

After t-ball we decided to head downtown to do some exploring. We started at the library which was hosting a super hero training day. Emmett made his own mask and cape.

Practicing his feats of strength. 

Oliver eating is so sweet... pinkies out. 

Faster than a speeding bullet... at the Hunley at the Charleston Museum

Ended our exploring at Magnolia Cemetery. A little morbid but extremely interesting. Next we come here I'm bringing my big camera because there are some many beautiful details in the tombs, headstones, and ironwork. 

Exploring attire: shirt // jeans // shoes